I went to bed early and here I am now, up at 10 minutes to 4am because my dog needed to tinkle and so did I. Before dawn, it dawned on me. I notice so many people give up on things in life and when they do, sometimes they get more reaction from others than if it were something positive. Why is that? I ask myself. Because some people (not all) will feel comfort in seeing the struggle of others. They actually use it as a reason to gossip about you and laugh if they are envious of you. As nasty as that sounds, it’s true. Whenever you complain about your life, just know that you are giving motivation to the haters. Seeking sympathy from the whole world only makes you seem weak. Sometimes people use the weakness from others as their strength.
If you started a goal and then gave up because your relationship didn’t work out, you are being controlled into losing. If you tell everyone how much you hate life instead of seeing the good in it, you are going to push the right people away and bring in the company of other miserable people. (Misery loves company.) They want to see you lose…why give up? Defeat the enemy with ambition in yourself and when you do, you will be glad at all you have accomplished.